Monday, October 28, 2013

Homophobic Micro-agressions- Why "that's so gay" matters.


http://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/2013/10/03/comment-australia-not-ready-gay-marriage

“Don’t be a faggot”/”That’s so gay”/“go out with me, what are you, a lesbian?”

They’re the homophobic slurs that litter the classroom, playground and online spectrum, and they are not okay. Their pervasive presence in the classroom has spanned the decades, and rather contradictorily, continues now in an age where the overall acceptance of the LGBTAQ lifestyle has skyrocketed- at least in the metropolitan area.

Curtis Campion in the above article points out the very different implications of being gay when living in the county, versus the city.

“These kids get physically and verbally assaulted until they are run out of their schools and run out of town. They are disowned by their friends, their family, their teachers and the community as a whole. These kids grow up feeling like they are an abomination and that no one is on their side. Often that's the case. They are, to all intents and purposes, totally alone.
In Australia, according to latest Census statistics, there are 33,714 same sex couples. Half live in Melbourne or Sydney, with most residing in capital cities. Just 7,289 do not. Because they can't.  If they don't have the financial means, or if their livelihood is on the land, looking after the family farm, they simply can't.
Less than 0.3 per cent of people in country towns - pockets of civilisation surrounded by hundreds of kilometres of bush and farms - identify as gay, compared to 17 per cent in inner Sydney. I moved 2,000 kilometres to go from 0.3 per cent to 17 per cent. I knew it wasn't safe so I moved somewhere I would be. Somewhere where I knew I would be accepted. But I shouldn’t have to flee to Oxford Street.”

On the whole, the issue is symptomatic of a broader intolerance fed by ignorance, but it is interesting to note the different variations that homophobia presents itself in. The closest related phenomena, I believe lies in Julie Minikel-Lacocque’s taxonomy of racial microagressions. While Minikel-Lacocque is concerned with recording the experiences of a group of Latino/a students in a predominantly white university, and dividing them according to subtlety and severity; the system can be transferred to the issue of homophobia within an Australian context.

Racial microagressions are “commonplace verbal or behavioural indignities, whether intentional or unintentional, which communicate hostile, derogatory, or negative racial slights and insults”. Surely then, a Homophobic microagressions would be a commonplace verbal or behavioural indignity, whether intentional or unintentional, which communicates hostile, derogatory, or negative slights and insults on the basis of sexual preference and identity.

A microinsult: a behavioural/verbal remark or comment that conveys rudeness, insensitivity and demean a person’s sexual preference or identity- such as “That’s so gay, miss, I don’t wanna read that!”.

A micro-assault: An Explicit homophobic derogations characterized primarily by a violent verbal or nonverbal attack meant to hurt the intended victim through name-calling, avoidant behaviour or purposeful discriminatory actions- “nah you can’t play footy with us, you’re a faggot”.

A microinvlidation: Verbal comments or behaviour that exclude, negate, or nullify the psychological thoughts, feelings, or experiential reality of a LGBTAQ individual. – “I didn’t mean gay as in ‘gay’, I meant it like ‘lame’, you know what I meant, don’t be so sensitive- it’s no big deal.”

While obviously the idea is not exact it’s clear to see that the taxonomy is one of general intolerance which works as well for race as it does homophobia. The question is, how can we implement this notion into the way we deal with homophobia within the Australian education system. There is so much to remedy, does the focus need to firstly address larger issues, such as the ability of private schools to suspend and expel students for coming out about their sexuality- or do both the insidious and outright expressions of homophobia need to be examined simultaneously.


 The above article contains two letters from gay students to Independent NSW State MP Alex Greenwich who “is lobbying for the NSW State Government to change its Anti Discrimination Act so private and independent schools cannot expel students on the basis of their sexuality.” They reveal several of the adverse effects than can fall to students who aren’t supported within their school environment when the matter of their sexuality comes into question. 

Clearly, change needs to occur on the larger issues, but it is clear that like the battle against racism, the road to combating homophobia within not only the education system, but larger society is one that will be long and at times un-ending. It is not enough to target the big issues, but turn the other cheek while students continue to use gay as a declaration of inferiority, or mistake such slurs as completely acceptable. No matter how micro, aggression and discrimination on the basis of either race or sexual preference is unacceptable and needs to be explicitly addressed. 

I look forward to a future in which ‘gay’ might be used as a positive term – “Brad is so comfortable expressing notions that fall beyond the hegemonic ideal of his masculinity, it’s like so totally gay of him, how fantastic, I think I’ll ask him out!”


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Campion, C. (2013, October 3). Comment: Australia is not ready for gay marriage. SBS. Retrieved October 28, 2013, from http://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/2013/10/03/comment-australia-not-ready-gay-marriage

Minikel-Lacocque, J. (2012). Racism, college, and the power of words: Racial microagressions reconsidered. American Educational Research Journal, 50(3), 432-465.

Piotrowski, D. (2013, October 1). Letters from gay Australian students: How our schools tried to 'fix' us. NewsComAu. Retrieved October 28, 2013, from http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/letters-from-gay-australian-students-how-our-schools-tried-to-8216fix8217-us/story-fnixwvgh-1226730816449

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